penting untuk INSTROPEKSI

WANITA adalah :

1. orang yang akan mendampingimu seumur hidup.

2. orang yang akan melahirkan anak-anakmu walau penuh rasa sakit.

3. orang yang merawatmu sampai tua.

4. orang yang akan merawatmu pada saat kau sakit.

5. orang yang akan selalu mendukung walau kau gagal berpuluh-puluh bahkan beratus-ratus kali.

6. orang yang memberikan hidupnya untukmu. bahkan ia membuang egonya demi bersamamu. bahkan saat kau menyakitinya, ia tetap berada di sampingmu.

sedangkan,

PRIA adalah :

1. orang yang akan menjagamu seumur hidupmu.

2. orang yang berkorban untukmu.

3. orang yang menafkahkanmu.

4. orang yang merawatmu pada saat kau sakit.

5. orang yang memelukmu pada saat kau sedih.

6. orang yang ingin membuatmu bahagia.

MEREKA sama berharganya,

hanya saja MEREKA mempunyai perbedaan-perbedaan yang kadang membuat mereka menyakiti satu sama lain dan itu hanya dapat diatasi dengan pengertian dari kedua belah pihak.

HIDUP itu sangat singkat. terlalu singkat untuk berbagai pertengkaran. mengapa tidak kau bahagiakan saja pasanganmu, dan mengisi hari-hari kalian penuh cinta, dan membuat pasanganmu tersenyum lebih lebar tiap harinya?

bukankah itu lebih baik dan bahagia dibanding saling menyakiti? ☺☺

walaupun banyak hal dimana kenyataannya tak mudah untuk dilalui, bahkan terkadang enggan untuk melaluinya.

melihat ke atas : memperoleh semangat untuk maju.

melihat ke bawah : bersyukur atas semua yang ada.

melihat ke samping : semangat kebersamaan.

melihat kebelakang : sebagai pengalaman berharga.

melihat ke dalam : untuk instropeksi. dan,

melihat ke depan : untuk menjadi lebih baik.

dari air kita belajar ketenangan.

dari batu kita belajar ketegaran.

dari tanah kita belajar kehidupan.

dari kupu-kupu kita belajar merubah diri.

dari padi kita belajar rendah hati.

dari TUHAN, kita belajar tentang kasih yang SEMPURNA.

karena,

tidak ada 1 orangpun di dunia ini yang SEMPURNA.

♥♡♥

love the way you lie -Eminem feat Rihanna-

[Chorus - Rihanna]
just gonna stand there and watch me burn
that’s alright because i like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there and hear me cry
that’s alright because i love the way you lie
i love the way you lie

[Eminem - Verse 1]
i can’t tell you what it really is
i can only tell you what it feels like
and right now it’s a steel knife in my windpipe
i can’t breathe but i still fight while i can fight
as long as the wrong feels right it’s like i’m in flight
high off of love drunk from my hate
it’s like i’m huffin’ paint and i love it the more i suffer, i suffocate
and right before i’m about to drown, she resuscitates me, she fuckin’ hates me
and i love it, wait, where you goin’?
i’m leavin’ you, no you ain’t come back
we’re runnin’ right back, here we go again
so insane, cause when it’s goin’ good its goin’ great
i’m superman with the wind in his back, she’s Lois Lane
but when its bad its awful, i feel so ashamed i snap
whose that dude? i don’t even know his name
i laid hands on her
i never stoop so low again
i guess i don’t know my own strength
[Chorus - Rihanna]
just gonna stand there and watch me burn
that’s alright because i like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there and hear me cry
that’s alright because i love the way you lie
i love the way you lie

[Eminem - Verse 2]
you ever love somebody so much you can barely breathe
when you with em you meet and neither one of you even know what hit em
got that warm fuzzy feeling
yeah them chills used to get em
now you’re getting fuckin’ sick of lookin’ at em
you swore you’d never hit em, never do nothin’ to hurt em
now you’re in each other’s face spewin’ venom in your words when you spit em
you push pull each other’s hair
scratch claw hit em throw em down pin em
so lost in the moments when you’re in em
it’s the face that’s the culprit, controls ya both,
so they say it’s best to go your seperate ways
guess that they don’t know ya
cause today that was yesterday
yesterday is over, it’s a different day
sound like broken records playin’ over
but you promised her next time you’ll show restraint
you don’t get another chance
life is no nintendo game, but you lied again,
now you get to watch her leave out the window
guess that’s why they call it window pane
[Chorus - Rihanna]
just gonna stand there and watch me burn
that’s alright because i like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there and hear me cry
that’s alright because i love the way you lie
i love the way you lie

[Eminem - Verse 3]
now i know we said things, did things, that we didn’t mean
and we fall back into the same patterns, same routine
but your temper’s just as bad as mine is, you’re the same as me
when it comes to love you’re just as blinded
baby please come back, it wasn’t you, baby it was me
maybe our relationship isn’t as crazy as it seems
maybe that’s what happens when a tornado meets a volcano
all i know is i love you too much to walk away though
come inside, pick up the bags off the sidewalk
don’t you hear sincerity in my voice when i talk?
told you this is my fault, look me in the eyeball
next time i’m pissed ill aim my fist at the drywall
next time there won’t be no next time
i apologize even though i know its lies
i’m tired of the games i just want her back
i know i’m a liar if she ever tries to fuckin’ leave again
i’ma tie her to the bed and set this house on fire
[Chorus - Rihanna]
just gonna stand there and watch me burn
that’s alright because i like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there and hear me cry
that’s alright because i love the way you lie
i love the way you lie

nothin' on you -Bruno Mars feat B.O.B-

beautiful girls all over the world
i could be chasing but my time would be wasted
they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby
they might say hi and i might say hey
but you shouldn't worry about what they say
cause they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby

not not not nothin' on you babe
not not nothin' on you
i know you feel where i'm coming from
regardless of the things in my past that i've done
most of it really was for the hell of the fun
on the carousel so around i spun (spun)
with no directions just tryna get some (some)
tryna chase skirts, living in the summer sun (sun)
this is how i lost more than i had ever won (won)
and honestly i ended up with none

there's no much nonsense
it's on my conscience
i'm thinking baby i should get it out
and i don't wanna sound redundant
but i was wondering if there was something that you wanna know
(that you wanna know)
but never mind that we should let it go (we should let it go)
cause we don't wanna be a t.v episode (t.v episode)
and all the bad thoughts just let them go (go, go, go, go)

beautiful girls all over the world
i could be chasing but my time would be wasted
they got nothin' on you baby
nothing on you baby
they might say hi and i might say hey
but you shouldn't worry about what they say
cause they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby

not not not nothin' on you babe
not not nothin' on you

hands down there will never be another one
i been around and i never seen another one
look at your style I ain't really got nothin' on
and you wild when you ain't got nothing on
baby you the whole package plus you pay your taxes
and you keep it real while them other stay plastic
you're my wonder women call me mr. fantastic
stop.. now think about it

i've been to london, i've been to paris
even way out there in tokyo
back home down in georgia to new orleans
but you always steal the show (steal the show)
and just like that girl you got me froze (got me froze)
like a nintendo 64 (64)
if you never knew well now you know (know, know, know, know)

beautiful girls all over the world
i could be chasing but my time would be wasted
they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby
they might say hi and i might say hey
but you shouldn't worry about what they say
cause they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby

not not not nothin' on you babe
not not nothin' on you

everywhere i go i'm always hearing your name (name, name)
and no matter where i'm at girl you make me wanna sang (sang,sang)
whether a bus or a plane or a car or a train
no other girls on my brain and you the one to blame

beautiful girls all over the world
i could be chasing but my time would be wasted
they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby
they might say hi and i might say hey
but you shouldn't worry about what they say
cause they got nothin' on you baby
nothin' on you baby

not not not nothin' on you babe
not not nothin' on you
yeah and that's just how we do it
and i'ma let this ride
B O B and bruno mars!!

just the way you are -Bruno Mars-

Oh, her eyes, her eyes, make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair, falls perfectly without her trying
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day


Yeah, I know, I know, when I compliment her she won't believe me
And it's so, it's so, sad to think that she don't see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look ok, I say


When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Because you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are


Her lips, her lips, I could kiss them all day if she let me
Her laugh, her laugh, she hates but I think it's so sexy
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day


Oh, you know, you know, you know, I'd never ask you to change
If perfect's what you're searching for then just stay the same
So, don't even bother asking if you look ok
You know I'll say


When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Because you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are
The way you are, the way you are
Girl you're amazing, just the way you are


When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Because you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are. Yeah

just the way you are klip

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ya Tuhan, bimbing aku menuju jalanmu..
bimbing aku menuju surgamu...
aku tau,
mungkin ku tak layak untuk menghuni tempat suci mu
tetapi, aku ingin menjadi manusia yang lebih baik lagi..
jauuuhh lebih baik..
aku malu Tuhan atas hidupku..
aku tak mampu memberikan yang terbaik untuk orang2 sekitarku..
Tuhan,
ku mohon..
lindungilah aku dengan kasih sayangMu..
jagalah aku dengan cinta kasihMu..
jadikanlah aku orang yang berguna untuk duniaMu..
Tuhan, aku mohon..
berilah "sentuhan" kasih Mu agar ku bisa menyadari segala salah yang pernah aku perbuat..
Tuhan, aku mohon
ampunilah semua hal yang pernah ku lakukan untuk menyakiti hati orang lain..
jauhkan rasa dengki, iri, benci, dari hatiku..
isilah hatiku dengan cinta, kasih, dan rasa sayang terhadap sesama..
lindungilah semua keluargaku ya Tuhan..
jagalah mereka..
karena aku belum mampu membahagiakan mereka..
bahagiakanlah hati ibu bapakku ya Tuhan..
hanya itu yang aku minta..
sambil berusaha dan terus berdoa padamu, aku memohon untuk mereka..
amiinn ☺♥☺